Down In the Dumps: Write this Way
It’s been a few days and I’m still moping around like somebody drained my retirement account and sucked the life out of me right along with it. I think the term used to describe my demeanor was “out of character“. It’s true. First of all, I have nothing to say, no punch lines, no jokes, no nothing. That’s not me.
I haven’t felt like doing much of anything either, I’ve been on strike.1 Every living thing for itself.
Sleep seems to be the only thing on my mind these days. I hate to admit this, but earlier this week someone became ill at work and I was told that they were resting in the other room on the couch. After they finished giving me additional instructions, all I could think was: “There’s a couch in that room?”
I’ve been so pathetic that I even went on the internet and typed in a search for ways to get out of a bad mood. How lame. I should do what?
Listen to music and dance, I’m not a cast member of Fame. Breaking out in a song or dance in the middle of an attitude does not happen in real life. Although doing The Carlton Dance always makes me feel better.
Take a bubble bath. Ahhh, yes, that sounds nice. Get a massage? Pamper myself? Tell me more.
Get a make over? Do I really look that bad? I know it’s been days since I combed my hair and yes my appearance is connected to my mood.
Okay, fine. I’ll do it, but before I go for my extreme makeover, to all those who have been putting up with my attitude, I just want to say one thing: You should be used to me by now I’m sorry and thanks for not bailing. Send cookies.
Writing, laughing, etc. is therapeutic and it’s free. What gets you out of a funk? Thanks to [http://slam101.blogspot.com/] who gave me the idea to use meez.com in this blog post.
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AHHHHHHHHHHHH V Now I am unhappy that you are so unhappy. I want the old V back. However believe me you are not alone many of have and are still going through these stages. They do pass and then all is well. Trying to think of something funny to make you laugh but I know all to well that nothing will at this point. Head held high, smile on face and know that we love you - it gets better.
Oh, I love these people where did you find them?
@ Natural
your characters are too cute. must be starting to feel better? I always sing the chorus of “I FEEL GOOD” and if you could hear me that would make you laugh too! I can’t decide if I would rather have the boo hoos or the I want to choke everyone in my sight days? I had then both this week. It is going to be too nice this weekend to feel anything but joy. Have a great weekend.
Awww. I am so sorry to hear you are down in the dumps.
However, even though you think you have lost your funny, you most certainly have not. I laughed hysterically at everything you wrote… even though I maybe shouldn’t have.
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Actually, I think life should be one big Gap commercial with everyone spontaneously breaking into dance. The world would be such a happy happy place then!
When I’m down in the dumpies, my daughter sternly threatens me with the following: “Mom! Do NOT make me do the chicken dance.” Works every time.
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Lunch with a friend… exercise… a full body massage.
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Natural,
Accept that you are going through a rough time. Learn to control it - with professional help, if necessary - rather than letting it control you. If need be, take some time off from blogging. Those of us who love your words WILL be here when you get back, and a “Welcome Home” party is a great pick-me-up!
Rita
Sounds like you’re in a mild depression. What I do, don’t know if this appeals to you at all, is to go back to the start of the depression and try to figure out what happened that caused it. Did something touch on an old grief, a crushed dream, or some other painful thing inside me? If it did, then I allow that painful feeling to come out. I think of depression as a sad or angry feeling in hiding. When it comes out, I feel sad or angry or whatever, but I’m not depressed any more.
I don’t really feel I know you well enough to give advice, especially since you haven’t really asked for any, but I’m sad that you’re down in the dumps.
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You are so cute and extremely expressive. I love visiting here. I know just what you mean. when I’m in “the dumps”….sleep is my only salvation. I’ve been feeling rather dumpy quite a bit lately. thank God for blogging. It takes my mind off of things I really have no control of anyway. Hope you’re feeling better soon.
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Writing is always therapeutic for me. Write, just freaking write. Those 2000 thoughts a day that don’t matter? Make them into words. Into text, into a collage of emotions over the monochrome canvas.
Cute Meez. I’ve never seen those before.
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Hi Natural: I’m sorry you’re feeling down in the dumps. I’m glad the laughter yoga video helped a little bit. I’m so going to check out meez.com, the images on this blog post are awesome
A long walk can get me out of a funk. Any athletic endeavor, really.
Or, sitting down with a nice cup of tea can help too.
I like the pictures, really cool.
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I hope you’re in better spirits soon, friend. I love those illustrations too!
You need a white russian.
Hi Natural. I’m sorry to read that you are feeling down. I went through a pretty rough time over the summer (one of the lowest ever). It eventually passed… or I passed it by perhaps. I really hope you find your way through this to the other side soon. I am thinking of you
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What gets me out of a funk? I can’t remember because I have dreadful PMT and have been acting like a homicidal maniac all day.
My only consolation is it will be over in a few days and then I can go back to being happy because it’s my BIRTHDAY this week and dammit I should be happy for my birthday!
Good luck with the makeover and the dancing. I’m sure this will pass soon. It’s easier not to resist, I think. Sometimes we’re up, other times we’re down. It’s the way of the world.
Or is that my PMT talking?
Kelly
How about writing a humorous post about feeling down and then getting support from people who are reading — or skimming — your blog?
I know I don’t comment often, but I hope that some of the comments that have been left help and that you get through this very soon.
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I LOVE your animations. They’re so animated. I wish I could invite you over for a cup of tea! Or something stronger.
Anyway, as pathetic as it sounds, I find an afternoon nap works for me - and maybe an early night.
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More Carlton dances! That’ll do it. Also, might I suggest exercise? I’m not one to talk, but when I do it, I’m always more energetic and upbeat. It’s OK. You can curse the whole way through it, just like I do. I promise to workout today in your honor.
Oh, and the Carlton dances can’t hurt. I do love the Apache one, too, where both Carlton and the Fresh Prince get down. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3pXIFQ5wOM
Feel better!
Down in the dumps sucks it like no one’s business. But I have to say you showed it in a very creative way! I love those characters. My favorites are Mom on Strike and Dance Jam (insert jazz hands here).
As you know, I’ve been hanging in the dumps for a while now and I have to say the thought of putting on music and dancing it out sort of pisses me off, no offense.
I guess that’s like exercising and exercising does not piss me off, so I suppose it all works out in the end.
Good luck fighting the funk.
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I love the pictures! They are wonderful! Such a refreshing change after having read so many blogs before yours!
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What gets me out of a funk? Gosh .. let me see. Johnny Depp can help! And no, I’m not kidding. Watching certain movies or interviews does help, he always makes me smile.
Apart from that, if it’s a serious funk, sometimes I can be jolted out of it by something bad happening to someone else, other times that makes it worse. You know - I mean jolted out of it by having to think of someone else and help them out, I don’t mean feeling happy that they’re worse off than me.
What doesn’t help is eating chocolate. Feels good at the time, but then the guilt sets in.
I hope you shake it soon. Maybe if you set aside the weekend to sleep as much as you need to, that will help?
Everybody gets down in the dumps every now and then, I guess it is just part of life. Finding ways to cheer yourself up can be invaluable. It is different for everybody. If you know of a couple things that can get yourself cheered up and back to normal you can save you a lot of time.
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Hi Valerie - even when you’re in a bad mood - you cheer me up. Funny stuff like this always makes me feel better when I’m having a shit time.
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I hope you’re feeling much better soon.
*L*
When I’m down my hubby’s of great help to me. He’s a smart cookie & he helps me sort through things. He also brings home chocolate. Toldja he was smart!
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Aw. I’m sorry you’re down. I am definitely a fan of pampering via a spa visit. For me, it’s massage. I’m not into the facials or makeovers so much. Also: online shopping. Buy yourself something pretty and unique from etsy.com. It goes without saying that chocolate should be a big part of any recovery process. I hope you feel better soon. And don’t worry about any of us bailing: we’re not going anywhere!
Love your meez!
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Hope you’re in better spirits soon!
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Hello. I’m sorry you feel kinda blue, “join the club” at least yours is temporary, hopefully? I can’t give you much advice on how to cheer yourself up since everything I’ve tried hasn’t worked. I used to bake but now I’m on a diet, which sucks.
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Glad I’m not the only one, I could have slept all day if I didn’t have a 4 yr old. Nice work with Meez, you reminded me I have an account there. I never thought about working it into a post, thanks for the idea!
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Maybe it’s the season. I always seem to get in a funk about now–and I love this time of year. Hope you feel better soon. I really loved this–it is so cute! Thanks for sharing.
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Hope some of that entertainment you gave us rubbed off on you.
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Whenever I feel depressed, I lighten my mood considerably by thrashing my man-servant soundly for a good twenty-five minutes. Works wonders.
Of course, this advice may prove useless if you do not have a man-servant.
At any rate, I wish you all the best, m’dear! I hope you rediscover your sparkle very soon!
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Sometimes going for a nice walk with my iPod or some podcasts helps me improve my mood. There are days I just need to be alone, and boosting the heart rate can do wonders. Hope you feel better soon!
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The characters make all of the difference in this post!
I kept scrolling down to see what the next one would look like.
Good job and nice post.
And keep your head up too. All will be fine.
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thanks everyone:
Kat, I don’t know anyone who is a good mood all the time. Once in a while I wake up and the next few days are just ugly. I feel better today. Go to Meez.com, you can make them there.
BloggerNewbie, I am starting to feel better. The sleep helped a lot. Thanks.
Monique, I certainly don’t like feeling down or blank. Sometimes I embrace it too long.
ScreamingAnnouncing and acknowledging it helps too! Thanks!Urban Panther, the chicken dance? How can you not laugh at that. Hey funk happens, right?
Vered, coming, coming and coming. I actually feel like doing all of those things now.
Rita, I have accepted it, just haven’t figured out what’s wrong, nothing in particular or out of the ordinary is bothering me. Blogging about what I’m feeling and some extra rest helped a lot. Time off from blogging or do you mean from work?
Thanks Rita.
Dot, I can’t think of any one thing that stands out that’s bothering me. I’m quiet, but hardly ever sad and I don’t get angry easily or even a lot. Maybe I just need to recharge my batteries.
Roschelle, that what I have been doing, going to bed and sleeping. Maybe I’ll set my bed time back to 10:00 too. Anywho, as of today, I’m feeling recharged…actually too recharged.
Matthew, I hear ya on the writing part. I probably need to do more “mindless” writing or blogging…hey maybe I’ll do that. Thanks.
Marelisa, yeah that video did make me smile. It’s fun acting silly and not caring what “the neighbors” think. Never heard of Laughing Yoga.
Bamboo Forest, I do enjoy strolling around the neighborhood when the weather is good, like today. Thanks.
Corrina, I’m getting there. Got my music on now and have been engaging in other pick me up activities. Mood has improved. Thanks.
Davina, maybe I need to start paying more attention to when I’m feeling down, but I get funky and it does pass or like you said, I pass it. Thanks so much.
Kelly, thanks. Maybe it is just the way of the world. No one is up all the time, without drugs.
Mike Goad, that’s a good idea, why didn’t I think of that. I do like to turn “what’s wrong” into “what’s funny”, coping mechanism? It got my mind off of me. Thanks for leaving a comment, I’ve seen you over at Panther’s Lair.
Robin, txs. I wish I could come for tea and something stronger. Maybe fatigue caught up with me, dunno. I took a ½ hour nap this afternoon, got some much needed sun.
Kathy, well I did my Carlton dance this morning, albeit it was at the breakfast table, but that was an indication that things were looking up. I expect you to do enough exercise for me to lose 18 lbs., please. Txs.
CardioGirl, it does, especially when you can’t give an explanation for why you’re down. Music gives me a boost most times, just listening to it anyway.
Evelyn, thanks. A picture is worth a thousand words I didn’t want to write? They did perk me up.
Jay, good ole JD. I’m sure he perks you up. Funny you should say this: something bad happening to someone else. My friend emailed me a copy of her bill and this was the first laugh I had all week.
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John Edwards, I agree. I know who and what cheers me up. We all have good and bad days, some longer than others.
Cath, believe me, I haven’t felt like my cheery self, but I’m near back to being silly. Feels good.
Lana, I am, thanks. Chocolate is good, a smart cookie will get eaten. I don’t discriminate. Again, Happy Anniversary!
JD, I need a lot of pampering, massages are good. I’m feeling better and I’m ready to go back out in to the world and be a
nuisanceproductive member of society. Txs.The Fitness Diva, thanks. I am. Am I ready to exercise?
Tondy, yeah it’s temporary. I don’t like being like this. I have people to bug. I did buy a cookbook yesterday, gonna try some new stuff.
DJ, sleep is great. It’s almost the cure all. I’ll try to remember to check to see what you did with your Meez.
Tricia, the thought of winter gives me the blues for sure, but I love Fall enough, as long as the sun is out anyway.
Jacqueline, laughter is the best medicine. Almost.
Lord Likely, you would. :). I don’t have the kind of man servant you’re talking about…thanks.
Squawkfox, walks are great for days like today. It’s beautiful outside and I’m on my way to enjoy it. Thanks.
Paul, the characters do add a little something to the post. They made me smile and took my mind off of me…doing something creative when not really wanting to.
Good grief! That’s some phone bill! LOL!
writing is really a great therapy
thanks for sharing, i wish i could go on a strike to, lol. and i need a make over too. 
have a great week ahead.
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I just let it pass for I believe it’s the entire psyche’s way of preparing for challenges on down the road.. skI am good to myself at these times though. Extremely good!~!!
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I’m a bit late on this post, but glad you are feeling better now. I love all the pictures!
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When I’m feeling down, the reason why depends on how I react to it.
If I’m in a stressed-out, ticked off kind of downer, I go for a walk in the fresh air, maybe with my camera. The exercise helps me burn off the adrenaline, and the fresh air clears my head.
If I’m in a mopey kind of downer, I try to do some activity that inspires me, like clearing off my desk. I get instant visual gratification, and an improved environment.
If I’m in one of those downers where the cloud descends from nowhere, and I have no idea why I’m actually depressed, I enter into the mood, and allow myself to feel down. I put on a sad movie, or something like that, and let myself feel the mood.
And if it’s one of those scary downers where an entire pack of black dogs appear, and I don’t want to continue living, I lock myself in my room, and play ABBA constantly. Never fails.
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Terribly funny, and helpful, you rock big time. I’m adding this one to kirtsy and stumble.
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When I’m tired and stressed, I blog, it’s a good therapy too.
Thank for dropping by and your comment. See you around.
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Ah, Carlton. Well played. I feel ya. I recently wrote a little ditty about being miserable. Mine was PPD on top of my already crazy depressed self. I liked that post, gave misery a nice upbeat feel, if that makes sense. Hope you feel better. If not, we can wallow together over a bottle of wine
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Oh Honey. I had no idea you were feeling so crappy these days.
Um….I dont know what advice I can give you to ‘Get You Out Of The Funk’. I couldn’t get out of mine either…so “they” gave me medications..and now I just feel weird-er.
Lets get massages and facials together and then get hammered?
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I feel bad that your down in the dumps but I’m LMAO with the visuals…
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I know how that feels! Hope you climb out of your slump soon. Love your blog. The animations are adorable.
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Hope your funk is getting less funky…
Maybe this will help: I Miss My Hair
peace,
mike
livelife365
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life is like that… anyway, cool animations!
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I love the animation. It is interesting how your “down time” cheers me up. You have such a great post. Thanks for keeping me in good spirits. And that cell phone bill is outrageous!!! LOL.
what a great way to do a post! I really like the animations, they fit in nicely. like reading a comic/blog/cartoon!
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Hey there!
I popped by to say a quick hello, tell you I’m thinking about you, and hope you’re feeling a bit better…
Rita
Hope you are feeling a LITTLE better?
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I think it’s the time of year. I’ve been feeling a little low lately myself all of a sudden. Just remember that it will pass. It helps me to watch something funny on TV - a sitcom or a movie. It gets my mind off my troubles. And I truly believe it stimulates “feel good” chemicals in your body.
Hope you feel better soon! If not, don’t hesitate to see someone. I don’t mind telling you that if not for science, I don’t know where I’d be today. There’s lots of help out there if you need it.
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Boy, can I identify with this post. I have been feelin the same way. I am pretty sure I have s.a.d and it seems as soon as I gotta stay in, I get all blah.
Thanks for putting this post in a entertaining way. Great idea for the toons!
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Jay, it sure is, I laugh every time I look at it.
Liza, yes, it can be great therapy. I was such in a funk, I wasn’t sure when I would write again, but I know I needed to get write something.
Sandy, maybe Sandy. It has passed and I’m glad. My face was so tight.
Hi Babs, yes I’m feeling pretty great today, thanks.
Solomon, sounds like you have great cures for your blues. Thanks for sharing.
Miguel, welcome and thanks for the kind words and for the social network blast.
ModernMom, yes blogging is helpful. I think maybe I should keep one for rambling. Welcome.
Julie, I understand what you mean..it did give me a boost. Took my mind away and yes I feel better, thank you and sure break out the wine.
Meleah, oh yeah I was not happy. Today though was a super great day!!!! My coworker said my face was glowing, rofl…so either I’m feeling better or I have a serious case of Dr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde. I’ll get back to you on the meds. I like natural home remedies. I can feel weird w/o meds fo’sho, sorry you feel weird. I’ll take the massage.
Chris, thanks. All better.
Leeuna, hello and welcome. Climb is exactly right. Just needed to listen to my body and then give it what it needed to recover, now I’m good. Thanks for stopping by.
Mike, the funk is gone, thank you. That video is funny.
Shaxx, I guess life is like that sometimes. A mandatory leave of absence should come with funk. Anywho, I’m feeling much better. No more blues.
Max, send money and cookies. I would not pay that bill. It’s cheaper to change my name and relocate. Smooches.
Andy Bailey, thanks and I’m going to tell you want I really really want. I read the post at work…it’s still my favorite plug-in.
Rita, thanks for thinking of me. I appreciate it. I’m doing much better, I’m emitting rays now. LOL
Meleah, yes ma’am. A lot better.
Lisa, hello and welcome. I hate being miserable and I know how to make other people miserable too. It has passed, thanks!
Simple Mindz, welcome and thanks for taking the time to comment. I’m sure we all can, we all have been down one time or another. I just don’t like to stay there, I have funny to make.
Thanks.
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I hope you’re feeling better. I was laughing SO hard at the Carlton Dance - that has got to cheer someone up. I laugh just thinking about it.
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Hi Kim, yes I’m feeling much better. Yep, that dance is funny all the time. Thanks for stopping by.
This is HILARIOUS!!!!
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Hey Big Pumpkin..I can’t even be mad if anyone finds this funny. I laugh at people’s bills, which is another form of misery I guess, so…..
ive been down in the dumps and dont no why i havent had a boyfriend in a long time i wish i could find someone. i dont no whats wrong with me. im sick all the time and want to be alone with loud music and im only 16.what do i do????
Okay, now that’s a great post, and a great use of images and the like. I wasn’t sure where it was going initially, but I’m glad I got to see all of it. Very nice job indeed, and some wonderful tips at the same time.
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Kelly I’m sorry to hear this. Um well I won’t give any advice but stay in school and do what people tell me, seek counseling. you didn’t leave your email address or any contact information.
Mitch, thanks. It’s simple but as the saying goes a picture is worth…..
I actually had to Google the words “fun” and “happy” because a few years ago, in the pit of despair, I didn’t know what either one really meant. Now that’s sad.
Granted this post is weeks old, one assumes (one with common sense, being moi) that you’re back to your groovy fabulicios self.
I’m toasting my glass of wine to you! Cheers!
Christa, I can identify. I was really in a bad funk, more zombie like…it happens once in awhile, okay every few months. :).
yes ma’am, i’m feeling much better than i was. a little tired, but i can crack a smile and a joke, so i’m good. thanks for stopping by.
great page! funny! sorry you were feeling so down. hope you’re better. great blog. how long have you been blogging?
thanks. i can smile a bit now. i don’t know how long i’ve been blogging. slightly over a year i guess.
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