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		<title>By: Indy</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-6121</link>
		<dc:creator>Indy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 05:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If parents were not given anything from their parents, or they have nothing, inheritance is probably not a concern for most kids, and no they do not deserve an inheritance.

However, the baby boomer generation (probably the most selfish parents in history) inherit an inheritance from their parents (usually real estate), because that’s what that generation did back then, which is now worth a fortune, were given the worlds resources on a plater and took everything they wanted leaving very little behind, with most resources scarce now, and most things worth an arm and a leg to purchase now, and the environment a mess with a big bill attached to clean it up, and now selfishly leaving no inheritance to future generations. How do they repay what they were unselfishly given from past generations or the world?

Sorry, people will be remembered for their selfishness, if they were given much, and leave little or nothing behind for others.

&lt;b&gt;I was not given anything, but head knowledge. I don’t mind working for my own, don’t need a hand out. A gift is just that, a gift and not a right. If someone is fortunate enough to receive something like an inheritance great, I just hate to hear people speak of it like they own it or are so entitled.  True, people will be remembered for their selfishness, but it is theirs to keep or do whatever with it.&lt;/b&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If parents were not given anything from their parents, or they have nothing, inheritance is probably not a concern for most kids, and no they do not deserve an inheritance.</p>
<p>However, the baby boomer generation (probably the most selfish parents in history) inherit an inheritance from their parents (usually real estate), because that’s what that generation did back then, which is now worth a fortune, were given the worlds resources on a plater and took everything they wanted leaving very little behind, with most resources scarce now, and most things worth an arm and a leg to purchase now, and the environment a mess with a big bill attached to clean it up, and now selfishly leaving no inheritance to future generations. How do they repay what they were unselfishly given from past generations or the world?</p>
<p>Sorry, people will be remembered for their selfishness, if they were given much, and leave little or nothing behind for others.</p>
<p><b>I was not given anything, but head knowledge. I don’t mind working for my own, don’t need a hand out. A gift is just that, a gift and not a right. If someone is fortunate enough to receive something like an inheritance great, I just hate to hear people speak of it like they own it or are so entitled.  True, people will be remembered for their selfishness, but it is theirs to keep or do whatever with it.</b></p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-4642</link>
		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 11:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well there are some that expect an inheritance as if it were their birth right...maybe a long time ago, birth rights were the norm, but hello....go make your own, as if raising you somehow weren't enough.

Thanks for stopping by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well there are some that expect an inheritance as if it were their birth right&#8230;maybe a long time ago, birth rights were the norm, but hello&#8230;.go make your own, as if raising you somehow weren&#8217;t enough.</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by.</p>
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		<title>By: estate planning</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-4632</link>
		<dc:creator>estate planning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 05:10:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find it repulsive that anyone would count on or expect an inheritance.  My comment is that the lazy bast-ds go out and make their own fortune and stop sucking on the parental teet.

estate planning's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://www.retirement-income.net/blog/2008/08/20/retirement-manager-from-morningstar-simplifies-401k-management/"&gt;Retirement Manager from Morningstar Simplifies 401k Management&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find it repulsive that anyone would count on or expect an inheritance.  My comment is that the lazy bast-ds go out and make their own fortune and stop sucking on the parental teet.</p>
<p>estate planning&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.retirement-income.net/blog/2008/08/20/retirement-manager-from-morningstar-simplifies-401k-management/">Retirement Manager from Morningstar Simplifies 401k Management</a></p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-4562</link>
		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 09:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jane, sorry about the delay in responding.   Glad things turned around for you and you're able to help mom.  It's a beautiful thing to do when you can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jane, sorry about the delay in responding.   Glad things turned around for you and you&#8217;re able to help mom.  It&#8217;s a beautiful thing to do when you can.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane @ Kidzarama</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-2815</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane @ Kidzarama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 14:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My hubby &#38; I have been looked after by my mother (in lots of ways) as we have gone through some really hard times.

Just recently, things have turned the corner with a vengeance, and it's nice to know that we can return a little of her financial help by supporting her now.

I dread to think of the day when my mum won't be here to hug us all. Money won't bring her back then, and I feel really sorry for those who care more for that than their own parents.

Jane @ Kidzaramas last blog post..&lt;a href="http://kidzarama.com/yackety/how-we-relax-at-our-house/"&gt;FPFF ~ How We Relax At Our House&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My hubby &amp; I have been looked after by my mother (in lots of ways) as we have gone through some really hard times.</p>
<p>Just recently, things have turned the corner with a vengeance, and it&#8217;s nice to know that we can return a little of her financial help by supporting her now.</p>
<p>I dread to think of the day when my mum won&#8217;t be here to hug us all. Money won&#8217;t bring her back then, and I feel really sorry for those who care more for that than their own parents.</p>
<p>Jane @ Kidzaramas last blog post..<a href="http://kidzarama.com/yackety/how-we-relax-at-our-house/">FPFF ~ How We Relax At Our House</a></p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-2791</link>
		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 15:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JD - $8,000! Ouch. 

Sara, that's nice of your mom to do. Better than fighting.

TOPolk enough IS enough, but not everyone sees it that way.

Naturals last blog post..&lt;a href="http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/5-random-and-quirky-things-no-one-knows-about-me/"&gt;5 Random and Quirky Things No One Knows About Me&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JD - $8,000! Ouch. </p>
<p>Sara, that&#8217;s nice of your mom to do. Better than fighting.</p>
<p>TOPolk enough IS enough, but not everyone sees it that way.</p>
<p>Naturals last blog post..<a href="http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/5-random-and-quirky-things-no-one-knows-about-me/">5 Random and Quirky Things No One Knows About Me</a></p>
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		<title>By: TOPolk</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-2774</link>
		<dc:creator>TOPolk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do I ever wonder if my parents are spending my inheritance?   Not really.  I think they've given me more than enough as is.  Plus, I try not to think of them dying anytime soon.

However as my mom is a state employee, I am entitled to her retirement benefits when she passes away.  I'm not in any hurry to get those benefits, but with the way my state does things sometimes, I wonder if they'll hold true to their word.

TOPolks last blog post..&lt;a href="http://topolk.blogspot.com/2008/06/separated-at-birth.html"&gt;Separated At Birth?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do I ever wonder if my parents are spending my inheritance?   Not really.  I think they&#8217;ve given me more than enough as is.  Plus, I try not to think of them dying anytime soon.</p>
<p>However as my mom is a state employee, I am entitled to her retirement benefits when she passes away.  I&#8217;m not in any hurry to get those benefits, but with the way my state does things sometimes, I wonder if they&#8217;ll hold true to their word.</p>
<p>TOPolks last blog post..<a href="http://topolk.blogspot.com/2008/06/separated-at-birth.html">Separated At Birth?</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-2772</link>
		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 01:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen! The greatest gift my parents could leave me would be a legacy of life well lived. Mom's smart, though--she keeps a list of the items that mean a lot to each of us, so that each of us will inherit the things that are most meaningful.  Keeps money and fairness out of it.

Saras last blog post..&lt;a href="http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/06/dishing-the-dirt-on-simplicity-style/"&gt;Dishing the Dirt, On Simplicity Style&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen! The greatest gift my parents could leave me would be a legacy of life well lived. Mom&#8217;s smart, though&#8211;she keeps a list of the items that mean a lot to each of us, so that each of us will inherit the things that are most meaningful.  Keeps money and fairness out of it.</p>
<p>Saras last blog post..<a href="http://www.onsimplicity.net/2008/06/dishing-the-dirt-on-simplicity-style/">Dishing the Dirt, On Simplicity Style</a></p>
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		<title>By: JD at I Do Things</title>
		<link>http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/#comment-2770</link>
		<dc:creator>JD at I Do Things</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 00:11:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree: inheritance is a gift -- you're not "owed" anything from your parents. That said, I almost cried when my sort of wealthy-ish aunt told me she'd fallen for a scam artist and gave him $8,000.

JD at I Do Thingss last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/idothings/~3/305372714/"&gt;I Got a Kitten so you don’t have to&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree: inheritance is a gift &#8212; you&#8217;re not &#8220;owed&#8221; anything from your parents. That said, I almost cried when my sort of wealthy-ish aunt told me she&#8217;d fallen for a scam artist and gave him $8,000.</p>
<p>JD at I Do Thingss last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/idothings/~3/305372714/">I Got a Kitten so you don’t have to</a></p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 11:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's true Barbara, loan and not give. There's less stress when you give whatever away, you don't worry about getting it back. At least I don't, but loaning things, you wonder if you will ever see it again.

Jay, not with everyone, but some kids expect their parents to take care of them forever, even in death.  I think they've done enough, time to fly.

Meleah, me neither....for whatever reasons people may have, some expect it (inheritance).  Some lose sight of what, at least I think it is, a gift. Gifts are unexpected.

Lana, my sober father is probably pissing away everything he got from his mother or ever saved and I know he's not leaving us anything - he's selfish - My mother on the other hand has always given to her children, so I tell her not to leave ME anything, to go and enjoy her money, travel. She worked hard for it and she taught me well enough.  She left me something that can't be spent, lost, or stolen....a pretty darn good example and a hard act to follow. I'll be just fine without her money. Of course, she is leaving me/us something, but that's because she doesn't listen,  but if there were nothing materially, she left plenty in other ways.

Sandy, enjoy the book. My princess picks the winners and she picked entry two.

Corrina, lol.  Hey what size are those shoes? 

Let'sB - You're alive!  Thanks for letting me know.

Robin, It's a little sad, when some forget all that their parents have done for them in the past....it's still not enough. They do feel entitled just because they breath. I don't get it either.  Of course most parents will take care of their kid(s) and leave them something, but it does get to me when it's expected and even fought over.

Naturals last blog post..&lt;a href="http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/"&gt;Enjoy Retirement, but Don’t Spend My Inheritance&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s true Barbara, loan and not give. There&#8217;s less stress when you give whatever away, you don&#8217;t worry about getting it back. At least I don&#8217;t, but loaning things, you wonder if you will ever see it again.</p>
<p>Jay, not with everyone, but some kids expect their parents to take care of them forever, even in death.  I think they&#8217;ve done enough, time to fly.</p>
<p>Meleah, me neither&#8230;.for whatever reasons people may have, some expect it (inheritance).  Some lose sight of what, at least I think it is, a gift. Gifts are unexpected.</p>
<p>Lana, my sober father is probably pissing away everything he got from his mother or ever saved and I know he&#8217;s not leaving us anything - he&#8217;s selfish - My mother on the other hand has always given to her children, so I tell her not to leave ME anything, to go and enjoy her money, travel. She worked hard for it and she taught me well enough.  She left me something that can&#8217;t be spent, lost, or stolen&#8230;.a pretty darn good example and a hard act to follow. I&#8217;ll be just fine without her money. Of course, she is leaving me/us something, but that&#8217;s because she doesn&#8217;t listen,  but if there were nothing materially, she left plenty in other ways.</p>
<p>Sandy, enjoy the book. My princess picks the winners and she picked entry two.</p>
<p>Corrina, lol.  Hey what size are those shoes? </p>
<p>Let&#8217;sB - You&#8217;re alive!  Thanks for letting me know.</p>
<p>Robin, It&#8217;s a little sad, when some forget all that their parents have done for them in the past&#8230;.it&#8217;s still not enough. They do feel entitled just because they breath. I don&#8217;t get it either.  Of course most parents will take care of their kid(s) and leave them something, but it does get to me when it&#8217;s expected and even fought over.</p>
<p>Naturals last blog post..<a href="http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/enjoy-retirement-but-dont-spend-my-inheritance/">Enjoy Retirement, but Don’t Spend My Inheritance</a></p>
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